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Culture Shock

I’m just beginning to settle down in this new country and my new role when he vomited – twice – tonight.

At around 7 pm, we’d just returned from another major shopping trip from Walmart.

On our first time there, he was pretty good and even fell asleep in the stroller.

This time around, he was very cranky on our way out of the noisy, crowded mall and just cried, screamed and kicked until I picked him up and held him all the way home. This stupid Mummy didn’t realize that he was already feeling out of sorts…

Falling Sick

He was supposed to take his dinner but I guessed he wouldn’t be keen since he was so tired. I prepared his usual bedtime bottle but he finished only 3/4 of it and passed it back to me, with Hubby sitting nearby chatting.

Horror of horrors – lying on a pillow, he started vomiting the milk and his lunch. I quickly set him to a seating position and tried to remain calm as my little boy continued gushing like a volcano. Poor guy! He was quite shocked too and looked at me in fear but I soothed him with, “Ok…ok…” until he finally stopped.

Hubby ran to turn on the water heater while I heaved him gently to the bathroom to clean him up. He didn’t cry but was whimpering a bit but luckily, the bathroom routine settled him. He busied himself with the plastic toys while I stripped him piece-by-piece and hosed him down.

He got over the fright and went back into his supervisory/commanding role of pointing to me bits of vomit I had to spray away (he does that too when I wash his butt). He kept on pointing to me with frequent loud “Ohh! Ohh!” and I said, “Yeah, yeah…it’s your vomit. Ok, it’s going down the drain…the floor is clean again.”

Hubby cleaned the sheets as best he could (we need another set) and I quickly put on a fresh set of clothes on the kid. He was subdued but sprang back to life when he saw his half-finished bottle of milk. He demanded that I top it up and we all went into the hall, where he also asked for his Sesame Street VCD.

I decided to give in just this once and he quietly laid on the couch to finish the milk. I was hesitant about giving it to him so soon after the heave but guess he knows his own body better. After he finished it, the naughty fella decided to romp around – to the extent of arching his back across my lap. I scolded him and told him to sit up.

Too late – he sat up and vomited the milk all over the sofa this time. As it’s pretty cold tonight, I didn’t want to expose him to water again but quickly changed him out of the soiled suit. This time, he knew that he was wrong and even pointed to himself for the mess.

Vomit once, I can handle. Vomit twice, I need to panic.

I quickly called my Mum, who’s out of town and was thankful that she picked up the phone. I was confused as to whether I should give him another bottle of milk or boil some bland congee instead. Mum said to let him rest 30-60 minutes or so before he takes anything again.

He was sitting on my lap and was happy to hear Grandma’s voice =) He was quite tired out from the ordeal that I brought him back to bed and turned out the lights though it was only 8.00 pm. Since my side of the bed was a sodding mess, I shifted the pillow to the foot of the bed. The little fella decided to join me and also shifted his pillow right next to mine!

Grabbing his Dutch wife, he scooted very near to me and did his usual routine of first touching my nose, hair, forehead, eyes, chin and neck and then his while I name each part. I patted him gently and in a few minutes, he dozed off.

I’m waiting for him to wake up anytime now for his milk since his tummy is quite empty now. I pray that he’ll be alright tomorrow. What a first experience! Huge, heavy sigh.

He had watery diarrhea twice this morning and vomited again at 2 pm. I’m monitoring him closely now to determine if it’s food poisoning or a stomach flu. Gave him diluted apple juice to prevent dehydration until I read the links below about NOT giving him apple juice.

His appetite is still good so I’m feeding him bits of mashed potato and carrot from my chicken soup. He’s eating half a banana now.

Will call his paed tomorrow if things get worse. Thank God for the internet, Skype and doctors who pick up their phones!

SMECTA Adults – 3 envelopes per day (in acute diarrhea the dose may be doubled at the beginning of the treatment). The powder is diluted in ½ glass of water. In medicamentous enemas – 1-3 envelopes in 50-100 ml of water 1-3 enemas per day.
Children less than 1year – 1 envelope per day diluted in a feeding bottle with 50 ml water and is distributed during the day. It may be mixed with other liquid food too (broth, juice atc.), 1-2 years – 1-2 envelopes per day, over 2 years – 2-3 envelopes per day. The drug is administrated after meals if oesophagitis and before meals in other cases.


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  • ryeli Link

    i can imagine what you’re going through…hope it’s nothing serious.

    since we came back from the US trip, i’ve been trained to handle vomits. haha…i mean, i never had this till now. hope it doesnt stay like this though.

    pleas keep us posted of his condition. btw, rye li is much better now. thanks for asking! 😉

    and u looked like you lost a fair bit of weight?! must be the packing and all eh?

  • A Mom's Diary Link

    hope he is well now. take care.

  • shooi Link

    Oh dear! Hope he is feeling & getting better now.

    Actually, i came over after I read your comment at Christene’s blog and wanted to ask u if you still want the non-oven mac & cheese recipe for him. I make that for Bryan all the time.

    Drop me a note if u still want and I will send u my recipe.